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stevenrosas:

When you think positively, your whole views change about the world and you tend to look on the better, clearer side. It may sound stupid but being resentful is what really renders positive thinking useless. When you let down your walls or hold out until they collapse really try to “focus on the positives in life.” The essence of life is not being perfect, impressing people, or succeeding at everything. The essence of life is simply making mistakes and learning from them, surrounding yourself with people that love you when you’re being yourself, and getting through the failures so that you can continue improving.

Change your mind. Look for your good features, think about the people that you know love you, confide in them and look at things on the greater side. Realize that nobody’s life is easy and that there will always be ups and downs, and moments of low self esteem. Don’t automatically assume that nobody cares. Every person matters to someone. You’re alive for a reason. There will be a tomorrow. There will be a next week. There will be a next month, things are bound to get better, things will change for the better. Think about all the good things you’ve experienced, felt, and achieved, and consider how many more good things could be waiting ahead. Let yourself enjoy life even if you’re not at the best place you could be. You only live once, make the best of it. <3 

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stevenrosas:

Sometimes when you are with someone whose presence in your life is greatly appreciated, they do not always know how important they are to you. If you want them to know, you have to show it to them. You have to make them feel like they are needed, wanted and loved.  When someone really listens to us when we talk it shows that they value our opinion, it tends to make us feel good about ourselves. It makes us feel like we are needed. This is a very important thing for lovers to do for one another. Listen carefully to what they have to say and then show that you value their conversation.  Know that it’s okay to be independent, but in a relationship it makes a person feel important when they can help their lover.

Knowing that you are needed can give you a sense of security. So, with that in mind, be sure to allow your lover to help you when help is offered freely and it doesn’t put them out too much for your liking, you know? With that as well, showing a person respect is a great way to show them that they are important. Never be condescending to, or about, your lover and if you are, be sure to apologize. This goes for in private, in public, when your lover is with you and when they are not. In other words, saying anything less than neutral about them is inappropriate, even when they are not around to hear it. There is no way to make a person feel unimportant and unloved faster than speaking ill of them. So always speak highly of them, they are your other half.  <3

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stevenrosas:

Take a moment, relax, enjoy the little things in life. When you live too fast, you pass by many things and you take it all for granted. We forget about the small things, we forget that we need to be happy. We live on such a fast track, that when we actually do stop for a minute or two, we are sometimes dumbfounded. “How did I get here” runs through your mind, “I can’t believe it’s my birthday already” you know? Please know that every day is special. It could be the happiest day of your life, or your last. Knowing that, why not make your days count? We always rush to make others happy, but let’s make ourselves happy first. Let’s take moments to relax and reflect. Lets, take the time out to support ourselves. You will not only feel physically better, but mentally better as well. Take the time to tell people close to you, that you love them; take the time to start that thing you always wanted to do. Take time out for you, because we have one life to live and you don’t want to miss out on it. <3

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The words “I love you” mean every time you hear their voice, every kiss, every laugh, every joke, every argument, it’s the best moment of your life. When you really mean it, you’ll never get tired of showing your love. When you say I love you, it means you’d rather hear the other person’s voice than sleep. You care more about them than you care about yourself. Their happiness becomes your priority and you would do anything and everything just to see them smile. I think we tend to forget the real meanings of things, and we go along with the hype. When maybe, we ought to realize that “I love You” is not just a word of commitment, but a word to show others how much we appreciate their existence because it makes us happy to be alive too. <3

stevenrosas:

Girls, know that every guy, sooner or later at some point in his life will need a that one girl to hold him down and make him settle. I know it may seem confusing and although we can lack verbal expression of our attraction towards you guys sometimes, we definitely give out some action oriented, non verbal, silent signs, which we expect you guys to take a note of. Most of the time, we are showing you guys we like you, but you don’t see it. I know many guys won’t be expressive through words, but our eyes will constantly shout out that we like you. Keep a look out for small gestures, and random acts of kindness. We’ll be different when you’re around. It’ll be the small things like the way we notice you when you enter a room, or the way we’ll always try to chill with you even if we have to cancel plans, or the way we’ll remember every little thing that you have mentioned to us. You’ll slowly but surely, start to be our everything.

We say It best, when we say nothing at all. We understand you get your days and your moments. We know when you say that you want to be left alone for sometime, you don’t really want to be alone, you want us there. Trust, if we like you we won’t leave you alone. We’ll understand, we’ll be with you, we’ll listen to all you have to say, and all you don’t say. It’s small things like that, that lets you know if he’s worth it. We know everyone has some turn ons and turn offs, no one is perfect. But when it comes to you, you’ll be perfect for us. We’ll like you on your worse days, and on your best days. We’ll like you, just the way you are. Your likes, dislikes, routines, and preferences we’ll be important to us, you’ll be important to us. Never doubt, just because it’s not being shown the way you want it to be. If you are his world right now, and he makes you feel like you’re on top of the world, then he has fallen head over heels in love with you and he doesn’t want to get back up. ♥

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